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This is continuation of my previous post , if you've not read my previous blog ( Link to previous blog ).Hope you found that blog useful. If you are joining me now we were discussing about HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF STARTING SOMETHING? So the 3rd one on the list was 3.What will X person say about me? Well this is the most common reason why people don't start, right ? People are often smothered by the thought of what he/she will think of me , what if I fail will he talk to me or tease me or laugh at me ? So here's how we can handle it: I want you to ask yourself these questions ↓ a). How is he/she related to me ? (Whether he or she is just your acquaintance or close family member. I'll discuss about it after the questions) b). How does his/her opinion affect me ? What if I don't listen to him/her will there be any consequences ? c). Is he/she expert in the field you are trying to start ? Or is he/she just another 'I know everything guy/gal...

Hey there I've always liked doing big things and creating something that everyone would cherish and would look up to ! But I had quite hard time starting things ! I realized that this is not my problem alone but many face this problem . We often can't start. Well with me it was about conversation with girls or talking to a stranger or starting new thing ! In your case it can be anything like starting something new , committing to someone, asking someone out whatever it may be. Today I'll discuss some of the things that worked for me ! So first I'll start with what are the some reasons why we don't start something ! Fear of failure         (These 2 topics are discussed in this blog. Next topics will be covered in next blogs) Follow us Fear of Success  What will X person say something ? Will I be liked ? I can't loose something I have ! There are many people doing the same thing why will they like my stuff ? I don't have a chance among all t...

I am 3D artist who likes to make motion graphics videos (Do check my Nike Ad I made for a competition @theprds  ) . I always have liked making motion graphics video and Nike being my favorite brand I was quite excited about making an Ad . And after I completed that advertisement I was pretty excited to make an Ad for someone. And I don't know by luck or something I happened to see Gary Vaynerchuck (If you don't know him Just google out ! He's Entrepreneur and I consider him life teacher cause his video has helped me Work out ! and stop being F***ing Lazy ! ) where he explained a hustling technique "Jab Jab Jab Right Hook! "   and also where he tells to personal message any person on Instagram or any social media and explain him how can you provide him/her with value (Do it for free to just test things out and if things work right you're set !) So I wanted to try what he said ! So I messaged many people and finally after messaging many of th...

Well I am one of the people who wants to experience every field and want to do every thing myself! My interests dabble from time to time and due to this I can't complete many of my tasks ! I am 3D artist also a 'wanna be' Entrepreneur also a 'wanna be' programmer , guitarist , singer ........... So due to this never ending list of my passion I would generally start a project then I would see something interesting and leave the current project incomplete and run after that and the cycle would continue .... Leaving me Frustrated , Depressed sometimes , Feeling like a failure who can't complete anything ! I needed this to stop so I was searching for the solution for 'Multiple-passion' and I found this on Forbes website. It's written by Caroline Beaton . ( Link to her article ) It helped me a lot and this was the thing I absolutely needed for the things I was facing. Steps: 1.Eliminate  As counter part to what what normally the q...

Often times we are not stopped by any other person from achieving our true greater self but by ourselves ! The following are the reasons why I haven't been able to achieve but I'm improving on it and I've been able to do things I was not able to : What will others think of me ? I would start off with unrealistic goals rather than starting small ! (Start small dream big !) What if I succeed , will people like me ? There are way many people who are achieved better than me , Do I have a chance ! What will friend think of me if I don't stay with them ? Will my parents grant me permission to do this ? I should do whatever others are doing ! I shouldn't dream big or should I ? These were the reasons I wouldn't be able to do things But not now ! The reason I was able to get out of this was due to Gary Vaynerchuck !( Youtube Channel ) (@garyvee) He's a great Entrepreneur , Public speaker and much more ! This guy kicks your la...

Hey, we often are confronted by lack of motivation while doing something we want to achieve, don't we ? Well I have been through this many times ! We generally are motivated at the start and then somehow the motivation tends to fade away! Has this happened to you ? Well in my case I had 2 reasons that I lost motivation every time I set something (It can be anything in your case) 1. I set the bar for me too high that i couldn't complete it and then i would get stressed and finally i would leave it incomplete ! 2. I would just be lazy . Being a student in artist world I have to work on my portfolio! I would look at these awesome portfolios of Artist who have worked for half of the life time on their Art . And i expected that in some months ! ;) So to overcome this I got one Idea from one of the video I was watching on YouTube! The guy name is Ramit Sethi (Owner of the company I will teach you to be Rich! ) The points that I took from him were: Don't ...