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How to overcome fear of starting (Part III) ?

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This is the continuation of the previous topics on Fear of starting ! If you've not read the previous blog (Here's the link to previous blog do check out) Now moving forward with the Fear No. 5 . 5. I can't loose something I have!  Well in this case often times people fear loosing money , their job , relation or sometimes even respect (If they have a high paying job then they fear that we will loose respect for leaving such a good job well I have already told you the question ( in previous blog ) At the time of death do you want to regret that when you had chance you listened to this X person and you didn't work on your art or that million dollar idea which you had? ) Let me tell you about something about fear of loosing something that we think is important! If we think about it with our brains nothing is permanent isn't it not even you but the thing that is permanent is our legacy that we create !  So it all depends on you whether you want t...

How to Overcome fear of starting something ? (Part II)

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This is continuation of my previous post , if you've not read my previous blog ( Link to previous blog ).Hope you found that blog useful. If you are joining me now we were discussing about HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF STARTING SOMETHING? So the 3rd one on the list was 3.What will X person say about me? Well this is the most common reason why people don't start, right ? People are often smothered by the thought of what he/she will think of me , what if I fail will he talk to me or tease me or laugh at me ? So here's how we can handle it: I want you to ask yourself these questions ↓ a). How is he/she related to me ? (Whether he or she is just your acquaintance or close family member. I'll discuss about it after the questions) b). How does his/her opinion affect me ? What if I don't listen to him/her will there be any consequences ? c). Is he/she expert in the field you are trying to start ? Or is he/she just another 'I know everything guy/gal...